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Addressing All 25 Year Old Thinkers
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▼ Timestamps ▼
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00:00 - Introduction
02:17 - The mind is out of our control
03:01 - What does the mind want?
05:26 - Becoming worse at life
09:55 - “I’m already too far behind”
11:57 - Things are better in your head
13:54 - It’s about not quitting
17:23 - Take the L
20:49 - Recap
23:10 - Questions
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КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @oliversmith7820
    @oliversmith7820 Хвилина тому

    This guy looks jacked on amphetamines

  • @funygameur
    @funygameur Хвилина тому

    - Schedule : Do it only when you've have promised yourself you will have the right to.

  • @Crystalmayot
    @Crystalmayot Хвилина тому

    So basically an incel is someone who's accusing women of being superficial for not putting up with what he wants from them superficially, aka s*x. Accusing women for "leading on" men, but just wanting them for leading them on for sexual purposes. Accusing women for not choosing you but only way you could describe a woman is by "hot".You will only see in others what you are. Change your perspective and meet actually normal women, who are the majority of us.

  • @mihaelabiolan819
    @mihaelabiolan819 9 хвилин тому

    What makes you believe it's not the same - or even worse - for women?

  • @personax4603
    @personax4603 12 хвилин тому

    I am happy that I am actually a friend. Not a filler one. Real one, for some people. Sometimes I feel that I am probably a filler friend in a group of people but then I remember that I have friends who value me and care about me and invite me somewhere.

  • @sheepriderkiller1181
    @sheepriderkiller1181 14 хвилин тому

    that doesn't affect me at all, it's easy for me to say no, even when people talk me like "he is evil for kicking that dog and deserves prison", to which most of the times i say "no, he doesn't"

  • @goldmandrummer
    @goldmandrummer 17 хвилин тому

    So the best strategy is "dissect pleasure" or "observe where the pleasure comes from" but there's no explanation of what that even means exactly or how to do such a thing or why it would change anything to think "the ice cream is introducing chemical reactions that my nervous system receives as pleasure"

  • @breakmanradio2530
    @breakmanradio2530 22 хвилини тому

    Deoends on how you define venting. Twitter? No. Talk to your loved one about why things at work are absolutely horrendous, and they valdiate your emotions? That makes me feel 1000 times better and allows me to let go of my anger. I do the same with my therapist.

  • @sohavatan9871
    @sohavatan9871 28 хвилин тому

    the sad truth (or maybe not) is that i’ve tried multiple therapists (almost 10) and none worked out for me as well as dr k did, if i had the opportunity, i would’ve signed up for dr k’s guide even and i’ve somehow figured out that it’s because i feel more comfortable with English therapy rather than talking in my native language and most of the therapists in my country are judgmental

  • @filipjohansson4293
    @filipjohansson4293 28 хвилин тому

    I have a rule to what 3 days to buy some things. Especially when it is something expensive that makes me excited. At the third day, I usually realize I don't need it. But when I feel doubt during those days or at the last day I throw ad6. If it's over 4, I buy it.

  • @sarahalderman3126
    @sarahalderman3126 31 хвилина тому

    Teachers? Seriously? They're the ones who CAUSED all this. What about actual good people? You know the ones who are actually underpaid! Not a group of people who's importance has been over-inflated forever.

  • @RaveMasterSRB
    @RaveMasterSRB 32 хвилини тому

    My understanding of brain rot is: >One locks itself into one state of mind followed by one life style that is making his life stagnated full of well know routines with a little effort and chalange for brain and "different" emotions to be felt.< Effects are: >being negative, sometimes lashing out anger at short burst at people who give you advices, feeling trapped and letargics like your brain is has turn off.<

  • @nicolejones3686
    @nicolejones3686 35 хвилин тому

    Lol the timing, It's 5:10am 😂

  • @maximiliaaneinerhand2044
    @maximiliaaneinerhand2044 36 хвилин тому

    Whats the full video for this one? Seems like K has got a lot of intersting things to say again and i gots to know

  • @Earthtime3978
    @Earthtime3978 36 хвилин тому

    If you’re broke at 60 you’ll always find insecurity

  • @manicbamboosprout
    @manicbamboosprout 37 хвилин тому

    Which video is this from?

  • @alika3651
    @alika3651 37 хвилин тому

    the last part is sooo real i have a friend just like this and i remember vividly that once theres was an occasion where we started arguing abt who should speak first LMAOOOOOO

  • @stampandscrap7494
    @stampandscrap7494 38 хвилин тому

    Wow. Undiagnosed but children and grandchildren all have ADHD and Autism. I have struggled with food all my life. I also have CPTSD diagnosed. Dissasociation is a huge problem with me. I am hoping I can use this infirmation to help me control my binge eating better.

  • @the_infinity_channel
    @the_infinity_channel 40 хвилин тому

    Guys just to let you know it happens in all kind of culture. I get Asian people have their own tradition also Eastern Europe it is the same. I found out if people are more religious they gonna put you in some kind of boxes cause someone did that to them and there was not place to question those descision as we do now. There is nothing bad to stay or to go live apart you parents. Just remeber no matter what your parents say they will mostly love you anyway. They are just using guilt trip on you cause is the wqy they used to control you as a child. Maybe they used this method to make you a better person which they will said and that is exactly what makes you stuck from making your own choices. If you grow up in this kind of household it is difficult to break throught but is not imposible.

  • @ABrown9312
    @ABrown9312 47 хвилин тому

    31 virgin and it's not about the act of sex itself, it's about the lack of intimacy with women that's the issue. I go out quite often (Meetup events) but still have issues with being chronically single. I have the feeling of being left behind, and insecure, and capitalizing on social opportunities is difficult. I’m growing with each meetup but the insecurity is still rampant. It's easy to say, “oh, just talking to them like a friend,” or go into interactions with no expectations. That's harder said than done.

  • @piyuu_1601
    @piyuu_1601 48 хвилин тому

    When I was 12 I wanted to become poet I wrote many poems almost 1 notebook but my grades weren't good it was only 68% so mom and dad BURNED my poetry notebook Next year when I turn 13 I wanted to paint 🎨 parents said NO bcz I'm not gonna make enough money for living with those paintings Then when I become 15 I wanted to become a dancer (like contemporary, robotics etc.) But parents said NO bcz no one in my family is dancer Ahh 16 is here my parents made me join classes for NEET preparation Now I'm 17 still finding my COMPETING INTREST which my parents will like THEY KEEP REJECTING MY INTRESTS THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS WITH ASIAN KID Why do you think NEET and JEE are so competitive bcz every parent want their parent to become doctor or engineer 😢 BTW I'm going to appear in NEET 2024 I hope I'll do my best

  • @oudekraal7460
    @oudekraal7460 51 хвилина тому

    age also plays into safety and inflammation of airways due to regular smoke inhalation can be quite sever in over 65years due to depletion of hormonal response to pollutants. Emergency fix is prednisone or longterm use Foxair but nil by combustion seems to be the only strategy for lungs that allow normal living in old age 😀

  • @filipjohansson4293
    @filipjohansson4293 55 хвилин тому

    I have felt that for a long time. I want to be free to do whatever i want and decidemy own restrictions and responsibility. But I know from him, Jordan Peterson and Chris Williamson that life without responsibility is awful. Not being abel to get a jobb on your own is awful as well. It more often then not feels like im not in control. I don't know if I will have given upp or chosen this life whith restrictions and responsibility forced upon me, when I have truly "excepted" it.

  • @ehukai2003
    @ehukai2003 56 хвилин тому

    I would say that that’s not what they mean by those statements, but I don’t have enough faith in humanity to do that anymore. Probably a scary amount believe it.

  • @human69.
    @human69. Годину тому

    a lot of people need to hear this right now. <3

  • @AL-ri6bk
    @AL-ri6bk Годину тому

    Legalize MAID pls or something

  • @krum1703
    @krum1703 Годину тому

    As a 16 yo, I am happy that I (sort of) managed to catch myself instead of falling in deeper into that smart kid trap.

  • @Firefly256
    @Firefly256 Годину тому

    Even after knowing about impostor syndrome, I keep thinking what if I *am* the actual impostor?

  • @Umbrella1968
    @Umbrella1968 Годину тому

    If any person wants to vent that is their choice and it is not illegal.

  • @rollings2035
    @rollings2035 Годину тому

    So basically you pay attention to the angel and the devil sitting on your shoulders for a moment, that makes you exert self-control, in a nutshell?

  • @thisisntallowed9560
    @thisisntallowed9560 Годину тому

    To me, it's that we all used to be a child, we all have different life experiences, no one's perfect, everyone has flaws and qualities, but just because someone looks superior doesn't mean they are. If someone judges your character, they know nothing about your life and what you went through. They know nothing about why they are themselves the way they are. So they can't take credit for it, and we can't take credit for ourselves. We're all the result of a serie of circumstances. And free will lies in our interpretation of those circumstances, wether we make it mean something bad about ourselves or we do something about it. Basically, if you're a poor guy who goes to the gym, and there's a billionaire working out next to you, you're just two guys working out, both doing the best they can with what they have and what they know. And as long as you do your best with what you know you don't have to feel insecure.

  • @nvmtt1403
    @nvmtt1403 Годину тому

    statistically, women only find 20% men as above average attractive. so if you are going to judge your looks based on female interaction, then you are just begging for that mask. do not let other people control your actions. take of that mask and focus on your career, that is one thing that will not betray you at the end of the day. security does not come from a partner. it comes from your own confidence in your abilities.

  • @scavengergigantos7696
    @scavengergigantos7696 Годину тому

    I want to so bad but i have so many triggers

  • @scavengergigantos7696
    @scavengergigantos7696 Годину тому

    How do i get sober

  • @EllieA-sf3ne
    @EllieA-sf3ne Годину тому

    Dr K talks about relationships but never addresses the real problem of most people in this community who never even get a first date.

  • @jamesburke9865
    @jamesburke9865 Годину тому

    The world would be a lot simpler if people just meant what they said and had the integrity to keep to it.

  • @TrongNguyen-lq8gd
    @TrongNguyen-lq8gd Годину тому

    A dummy summary is: - You CAN'T TAKE ALL RESPONSIBLE for 2 persons relationship. - INVITE them to SOLVE problem by asking them to articulate what they want. - If they do not willing to participate, LEAVE the relationship.

  • @Starmansuperman
    @Starmansuperman Годину тому

    Suicide doesn't take the pain away it just gives it to someone else -a real gigachad

  • @cha_eldmo_lester
    @cha_eldmo_lester Годину тому

    Guess I'm not 25 yo thinker even tho I'm 25 then

  • @rose4490
    @rose4490 Годину тому

    *Whenever I see someone calling me, especially family, I get really tired, and think, "Hell no!"* 🤕

  • @Gomace
    @Gomace Годину тому

    I felt like my mom did this all the time growing up, and it got to the point where I would explain to her why I would feel guilty over the way she responded when I declined and get angry at her for guilt tripping me. That was the only way I could justify standing up for myself.

  • @neveragain733
    @neveragain733 Годину тому

    True, when my mom passed i was so relieved.

  • @waterwulf
    @waterwulf Годину тому

    Depends on your definition of ‘smart’. It sounds very much like this persons definition of smart only encompasses that which they themselves feel competent in. This isn’t dunning Kruger, more a lack of socio-emotive understanding. I think you’ve nailed on the head with his upbringing. Being conditioned to believe they are already elevated above others. Conditioned to judge others. It’s a conditioning that manifests as resorting to dismissal and withdrawal at first point of call as opposed to compassion, empathy and understanding when confronted with someone who’s relationship doesn’t overwhelmingly benefit them. This isn’t an indication of being ‘smart’. It’s an indication of being socially and emotionally stunted.

  • @neomayn
    @neomayn 2 години тому

    Mostly agree with the argument but sometimes positive outcome can get from negative emotions.That negative stimulations in the brain which has fired up neurons can cause more qualities than tranquil mind.I can say that for positive emotions, too. No one knows what is going to happen one second later in their life, therefore no need to generalization. Like i point out, understand your argument and mostly agree but people who have unwanted chronic guests in their body would have exchanged in a heartbeat through (nor)adrenaline and cortisol to "positive emotions".